Hard knocks 

I found the greatest love of all , it is easy to achieve , the greatest love of all is to love your self . Love your god , love your rasul , simple !


Tapi aku masih sunyi in practical , sunyi sangat 

And so you said you are sunyi , and you focus to find a solution to the situation , cari lah teman . Sound easy . Senang nak cari kawan , you end up looking for a teman .

There are many ways , among others .. facebook ,.. and via he internet , I have done it ...

First you know them , some money spent on the communications , sometime they will answer you calls , sometimes their lines can't be connected , sometimes they just just won't pick up your calls .

Later they will tell you that they runs out of credit , you may have to top up for them ...

Later they will tell you that their phones rosak , you 'll have to buy them a new phone , they prefer the expensive ones .

Later you ll have to meet them.

The ' outing ' will cost some money , kena belanja lah , at least di KFC or Pizza , mana ada main kat kedai mamak ..,let alone kat bus stand , kalau yang kerja kerja tu , kena lah jumpa kat tempat exclusive sikit ..

Excited memang lah , a meeting much anticipated lah katakan .

The results may be spontanuos , you may be able to know samada there will be another meeting .

Selang beberapa lama ,nak jumpa lagi ... kali ini di tempat yang agak remote. Then you may require to have a good car.

Mungkin akan ada adegan adegan yang menyebabkan anda merasa terasa.. sedikit  sensation..

Selepas beberapa kali jumpa , biasanya the 3rd time ...


There are 3 posibilities you are going to face ... i.e

They will talk about money !

They will talk abaout marriage !

They will want you to act on them .. they are horney


The worst scenario , they talk about all of of it , 3 pekara sekaligus ..

The questions is .. Are you ready ! ?


Nak kawin , zaman sekarang ini ? The minimum one should have , itu pun sekurang kurangnya .. RM 20K.


Mamat bungga yang bekerja tak apa , depa ada credit facility , mudah sangat boleh pinjam sampai RM 100 K , ada bank yang boleh beri pinjaman ..

and at young age , selepas kawin beberapa tahun , they go bankrupt .Rumah tangga .. bini dah malas nak hidup dalam serba kekurangan !!! Mulalah pelbagai tragedi selepas itu 

Itu belum cakap pasal meet the parents lagi . 

Itu belum cakap pasal where are you going to stay ..


I have been there .. I know 


I rest my case . Don't try !

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